I am 41 single looking to settle down. I am looking for monogamy and something long term. I use a wheelchair on an as needed basis about twice a year when my Rheumatoid arthritis acts up.

No I do not drool or anything like that I am not looking for pitty.

I like learing new languages. I love learning about world affairs and foreign Policy and international affairs. I also like to hike and bike and sail. I also like to read a lot.

I also speak English, Portuguese, and Spanish fluently. I also like to swim and travel. I also like board games such as Risk, Chinese checkers, Concept, and other strategy games. I also like Jeopardy!

I considered going to seminary to becomr a priest, but decided against it. I hope to eventually become a Latin American Studies and Political Science professor, My areas of interests are vast. If you can't deal with the chair thing on the ocassional basis that your problem not mine. But if you have serious questions please do not hesitate to ask.


I am not looking for someone to baby me or to treat me any diferently then anyone else. I am independent and able. If I need help I will ask and let you know or you may ask if I do need any, but please just don't assume so . Yes, we can and should take care of each other and I would take care of you as you would me in a relationship, but please don't date me because you feel bad for me, actually date and talk to me if you are really truly intrested in me and think we might be a potential match.

I am strong and have been through alot in my life . I just want to help someone be their best self and them the same for me. Let's explore the world together! Ler's make a differnce and make a positive impact on eachother our community, and the world.

Also, before you ask and yes people ask, yes everything works in the intamacy department like its supposed to. No, I do not wear a diper, yes, I have been asked this before.

I Iike documentries and movies. I also like biographies, and historical fiction. I also like cooking. I love Latin Ameican, Chinese, Italian, and French food. I work out almost every day. I work in political research. I also am a big fan of mental health awarness and advocacy.

I deal with anxiety, OCD, Bipolar 1 disorder and PTSD. I take medicine to help.

I also love studying about religion especially Christianity, Judaism, and Islam. I was in a five year long relationship I have been single for a while now. I got cheated on.

I love dogs more then cats, but I do tolarate cats. Please be a dog lover! I also like horses. I grew up all over.

I was adopted at an early age. From my biological family I am the 7th of 9 children. Some of those are half-siblings. In my adoptive family I am an only child. Yes, I am close to both families. I am a United States citizen if that is an issue for you.

I am a romantic I am looking to be someones soulmate cofidant and partner and best friend.

I am a night and evening person I am not a morning person, but I will be if I have to be. I would rather be at small gatherings than large parties but, I do like concerts.

I like water coffee, milk, tea, and wine better then beer. I drink some but not a lot. I drink some soda, but not a lot.

My music taste are eclectic I like most music, but with rap and rock, I am very picky. I also like country music, but I have my perfered artist there too. I also love music from around the world.

I also like audiobooks and pdcasts. I love NPR, BBC, CBC, CNN, and MSNBC. Yes, I can and will date someone who has different political views, but please be open to debate, new opinions and the things that make us unique as people.

Like I mentioned above I am a romantic I love to kiss and cuddle and just talk knowing the other person is there. I don't mind holding hands in public,but only if the other person is comfortable with it.

I love going to museums and the like. I also like being outside in nature. My favorite seasonas are Fall and Winter.