Chubby Bear here to chat

Pvt chat, horny always. Phone cyber . Hit me up, phone +

Hey there

51, 5'6", 140, muscular GAM

I left but realized I liked some of the guys here because they were cool.

bi guy here. mostly a top, but out here in the country, anything goes. into a lot. always been a pervy, kinky guy, but not into crazy stuff. not into scat or piss, not into leather torture stuff.

If im online probably looking for phone or cam…

bottom kinda guy

For systematic use

Problem with previous profile, so I've moved from being Secretive1 to being Secretive2. Clever, huh? :) I'm closeted -- deeply closeted. Please don't tell me I shouldn't be or don't have to be. It's a decision I've made and I'm comfortable with it. If you're not, I understand that and respect your decision; please respect mine. And that means no pictures either; if I'm deeply closeted, it's pretty much a given that I'm not going to post pictures. Again, if that's a problem for you, move on. I'm athletic -- 6'3, 200, muscled. I'm actively bi, with a number of female acquaintances and a very small number of guys, who are as discreet as I am. I enjoy cyber, and I think I'm good at it. I'm a top -- sometimes tender and gentle, sometimes aggressive. Either way works. I'm not a sadist, not a daddy (and don't want to be), not into guys who aren't masculine and, preferably, athletic. Too large an age gap (in either direction) is kind of creepy to me. And if you're interested in being "raped," I'm definitely not your guy. Same deal if incest is your thing. It's not mine, and I won't hesitate to block you if you try to go down that road. If you think you'd like to get it on with cyber, terrific. Understand it won't go beyond that. But it'll be fun while it happens.

Open minded, here mostly for chat. I like role play and exploring new kinks, and finding out what makes guys horny. If you contact me to chat, please have a pic.

Here to chat.

Hey guys masc and vers and musc

Got deleted for some reason. Let's try this again. Nerdy PhD candidate with a weird sense of humor. Mex Italian Filipino Irish mash up.

Always a top, a Dom when I find a good sub. (I end up topping a lot more than Domming, and both are good, sometimes even great! :) ) Happy to chat and get into cyber roleplay. But don't bother if you want to talk about rape, incest (not interested in being your "daddy"), or age-play. Rarely do phone, so don't ask. If it's a possibility, I'll let you know. If you're a teen, thanks for the interest, but I'll pass. I don't post or share pictures. If that's a problem for you, I'm sorry, but it's the way it is. Be real. I am. And BTW, the "Cdn" in my screen name stands for "Canadian". == Results from bdsmtest.org (obviously for when I Dom; topping can be anything from mild to wild) == 100% Dominant 97% Degrader 92% Voyeur 88% Master/Mistress 87% Rigger 67% Primal (Hunter) 64% Brat tamer 59% Experimentalist 58% Exhibitionist 50% Owner 43% Sadist 34% Vanilla 11% Daddy/Mommy 10% Non-monogamist 0% Masochist 0% Switch 0% Submissive 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Boy/Girl 0% Degradee 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Pet 0% Brat 0% Ageplayer

Married but curious about men, looking to chat

Looking for hot chat and maybe more. Attracted to many types but have a weakness for men who know what they want... 5'8"/140 brown hair and eyes, mostly smooth body, bubble butt, want to know more, just ask. pics to trade.

Here to see what happens. Learned so far: 6/5/2019 Phone = BS. Hooking up not happening No Pics + Profile = no response More headless guys than the French Revolution! 6/11/2019 There is no end to the dick pics requested and in different poses/actions/angles. For some reason a response is demanded for things never asked for. A growing appreciation of leather! Opposites rarely attract, but some do. 6/17/2019 Does anyone read this/these besides me? Why would I quit my job and move? Do I look that desperate? 6/24/2019 Some words have their own power, and feeling when used. Talking to some guys creates a sense there is just this feeling of, something else. Difficult to describe:, delusion? ecstasy? imagination? sleep deprived? weed? shrooms :-D? hormones? probably is, but it seems there and interesting. 6/28/2019 Combining fun, with cynicism. Did not expect that. 7/26/2019 Mystified why anyone would get upset over being blocked because they never answer a pvt or mail so I block them to know not to try anymore (I forget too easy). I do not want to appear to be needy AF on a chat. It is just CHAT! Have gotten a good chuckle out of guys who post pics of some of the bodybuilders they think are unknown enough for them to get away with it. And no I am not gonna tattle, too fun to fuck with. 9/9/2019 Apparently, there are more who read this than I knew! Blush! However, reading and understanding are two different things to others. Plenty seem to think they are the exceptional. And they might be. But, I am blissfully unaware so there is that. And I have made mistakes (few as they are! HA!) by triggered things on this site I cannot figure out how to undo. The learning curve for me on here sucks. But men on here that are impressive and fun exceed the OMFG, WTF, JFC moments by others. Not to complain cause I like odd, off the leash stuff. But even I have a limit here and there. Ever the explorer, Nosey, and voyeur. I regret nothing. Yet. 12/10/2019 When I was a kid (and now) I had a huge "crush" on some men way older than me. A lot of energy was focused on them in my private time LOL. I never acted on it though, regrettably. Now in my 20's I find that suddenly I am too old to be young enough. I wonder what the magic number was??? Wonder if age is the real crux or is it assumed "innocence", inexperienced, pure or whatever. I was not so innocent at 13. Perplexing. 02/19/202 Demand I open my locked pics before i pvt messaged. I do not have locked pics. While at the same time he had a few pics and some were locked. How funny. 4/3/2020 Hit the breaking point tonight. Decided the only reason to be on here for me is to talk to MEN. Zero reason to keep talking to guys that are close to my age. Men have been the vast majority of fun to talk too. So from now on if you are under 35 (had to pick an age LOL) I really am not on here to talk to you. And you will most likely get blocked. Tired AF of drama even here. 5/5/2020 "Bro"&"Brah" are not used by any of my friends/family. For whatever reason it never took. But when an older guys use that term with me it is just creepy. Not interested in anyone on here being my "bro/brah" which to me implies a close age brother. Uhh. NOPE! Here for men. I know that is not what it means everywhere else. I am not everywhere else. 7/15/2020 In chat you can delete messages. Why can't that be done in mail? Emails and messages have been sent when my cognitive abilities are "challenged". Seemed like a good idea at the time! Later? Well, just say mistakes, moods, odd comments, grammar, and other not-so-well-reasoned-thought-experiments eek out. Very sleepy is hard to distinguish from flat out stoned or drunk. Re-reading them the next day is an exercise in CRINGY! Very CRINGY. 7/21/2020 Why do guys post pics of plants for the profile? or landscapes and other non-human related scenes? Even avatars? Humor??. But 99% I just draw a blank stare of zero interest. Weird. Amendment to the post of 7/21/2020 (2/8/2021) Why post a pic that has an image so far in the back ground it could qualify for a Yeti sighting pic. Fuzzy, out of focus, bent over, back to the photo, standing next to some tourist attraction? How is that different from the landscapes, avatars, plants or other "still life" images. Is it supposed to be artsy? Lost on me. 7/28/2020 Never dreamed an odd pic of one of my little collecting quirks would get such scrutiny. Problem solved ..maybe....till the next one. 2/8/2021 Ok, if you are a man on chat. And you post pictures of various states of undress. You know you look good and strong. Showing the junk maybe. Then can only say how you hate chat? No dirty chat but want to know all about my naughty behavior. If you got no game don't get all butthurt if others do not want to entertain you. Remember sex is mostly between your ears. I like it all. Porn, chat, real, memories, voyeur, reading, fucking ass, sucking cock, flexing. No limits. And like my gym wall says Comparison is the assassin of joy. Imagination is power sexy AF! Be free! 2/8/2021 Guy in several Chat (including CYBER) rooms EXCEPT for PHONE. Get's butthurt when will not phone. 3/10/2021 I post several pics. None are X but enough of what I want to show. Maybe gonna change that if it suits me. However, just a few lines into chat and demanding I show all the goods? Blocked. Just an FYI. 3/25/2021 See a new face/profile and say Hello! First line back is some kind of hostile denigration! Makes me wonder? Most likely jerked their chain when they were someone else. Then again, maybe they just know I am an asshole! It could happen. 7/5/2021 Said hello to a good looking man. Got a comeback that said I was only 22 but he had seen my pics years ago? Fun! yeah i got a few more months till I turn 23 (the horror! LMAO). Been on this site Since about mid 2019, so yeah, i am gonna be 2 years older. Thankfully he blocked me! Also blocked him. Can't have him clutching the pearls over the fact i have a string of pictures from 4 years to a few months ago. If you are looking for the non-stop string of selfies? True I am pretty self centered but not bad enough I need non-stop selfies :-D 6/5/2022 How am I still here? Strangely addictive even now without the virus lock down driving my being here. It's harmless enough and there are still some great contacts I really really enjoy. Yet, I am still in awe of how weird and erratic some guys can be! How an off the cuff remark can become the cause of the most irrational rants and or accusations about anything. So stupid weird I enjoy seeing where they go with it. Admittedly egg'n it on at times. Unexpected fun with unhinged conversations. Some great guys on here Too be continued.........

Love chatting, cyber and roles. Usually top and often dom. Tend to prefer guys the same age or younger to 20 plus. 6'2 muscle XL uncut. All cock - I mean jock!

Just like to chat

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Few limits, wild. Always up for a convo

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Hairy Daddy bear. Travel for work, love hot phone. Home base is Jacksonville FL but not there very often. May be near you. Ask.